In 1949, a Connecticut kindergarten teacher named Doris Morcom gave her class an assignment: draw your father from memory, without looking at a photograph. No reference. No cheating. Just what you remember.
What emerged was a collection of portraits that Life Magazine photographer Al Fenn captured in black and white. They're striking not because they're polished—they're decidedly not—but because they're honest. A child's honest.
The drawings show fathers in suits, mostly serious-faced, the way men of that era presented themselves to the world. But there's something in how the children rendered them that feels tender. These weren't attempts at photorealism. They were attempts at capturing the person they knew. The slight slump of a shoulder. The particular way a face looked when it was thinking about something else.
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Start Your News DetoxWhat's remarkable is how much the children got right, even in the imperfection. A child's memory of a parent isn't photographic—it's emotional. It's the accumulation of small moments: the expression, the posture, the feeling of being in the same room. That's what these drawings contain. Not accuracy in the technical sense, but accuracy in the sense that matters to a five-year-old.
The fathers, dressed in the conservative style of post-war America, look formal in a way that might seem distant now. But the children drew them as they saw them: their dads. The project later included a reversal—the fathers were asked to draw portraits of Ms. Morcom herself, creating an unexpected reciprocal moment.
Doris Morcom taught for 35 years and passed away in her late eighties, but this one assignment from 1949 survives as a small window into how children perceived their parents in the post-war era. It's a reminder that the way we're seen by those closest to us—especially our children—is rarely about perfect representation. It's about presence.









